Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Why Would She Play with my Emotions?

Hi Aunty Amara good pm. I've been following you since I was in Nigeria. I traveled to U.S. last year and I'm schooling. I've a thing to share with you and that is about my relationship.
I'm 29 years and she will be 22 this year.
The issue is a matter of trust, I graduated before her from the university. Due to my graduation, I left school and I was at home, it became a distance relationship and we both were really in love not until I started noticing some changes with her. I tried to know what the matter was but she became defensive. Later on, a cousin of hers that was aware of our relationship told me that she has fallen for another guy.
To cut the long story short, I confronted her but she denied it not untiĺ last week she told me the truth that she actually accepted another guy but it didn't workout, and she turned back to me. But before then I've gone through series of emotional trauma, we broke up and reconciled again.
Aunty Amara, I've invested so much care and attention to my girl. We both defined our relationship before we started. I really still love her but I feel so used. I've forgiven her but each time I remember the way she lied to me, I feel cold within and my trust for her has dropped drastically. 
She has changed totally but I still question... Why would she do that to me? 
Our relationship has lasted for three years now. Aunty, I need your help. We are both really in love and I believe it was because of it she opened up to me. 
Thank you.

She did that because she's a young girl growing and developing into a woman. She's experimenting and exploring this whole world of love and fantasy in her mind, she doesn't want to feel choked by your over commitment and affection for her, so she wanted to try something different to see how they are, and the outcome is why you feel cold about her. 
Well, since she's beginning to realize herself and her needs, maybe you should reconsider her and accept her in your life. She only acted like young girls do when they meet a man who genuinely loves her and wouldn't want to give up on her for a second. 
But where you can't trust her anymore, please don't border trying to make the relationship work, simply walk out of the relationship and go for a mature lady who have gone through all these and is emotionally and psychologically ready for the kind of relationship you desire.


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