Friday, May 12, 2017

Should I Keep my Baby after Delivery?

Good morning ma. Please am just disturbed about an issue that is bordering me. I met this guy three months ago and we got started, though he told me he has a wife. Along the way I took in for him.
I told him that am pregnant, he asked me to keep it but I refused. So the next day he came to my house and was telling me the reason why he asked me to keep the baby.
Actually his wife has a problem of conceiving. They have done everything possible but all proved abortive. She is having blocked tubes unless she will do IVF,  and his wife advised him to look for any lady and get her pregnant. For know he told me that he can't marry a second wife, and his church doesn't permit that, moreover he has wedded in church.
I now said okay what are we doing now? He now said that he will be in my house and he will cater for all I need and he is ready to make me happy. If I give birth he will take the child to his wife and explain to her, that I should not think of aborting the baby that if anything happens to his baby he will sue me to court. My dear am just confused and I don't know what I am going to do. Please no insult, should I born the baby and give him or I born the baby and keep my baby with me.
Please I need an advice. Thank you. 

You signed up for his manipulation and wickedness by accepting to date a married man even when he told you that he's married. I am extremely angry at the way he manipulated you with love into conceiving for him, but at this point the most important thing for you to do is to keep your pregnancy and get all the support that you need at this point in your life. 
The baby obviously belongs to both of you so he cannot take your baby out of your reach for whatsoever reason or purpose. If he really had the fear of God as he claimed, he won't allow anyone to influence him into having an extramarital affairs let alone getting another lady pregnant. 
When the baby arrives, both of you will then agree on how to support your baby, but you are not doing his family any favour by having a child for him, it is your pregnancy, your body, and your baby. So don't pay any attention to his threats or rules because you had no hand into his wife's inability to conceive his baby. 
When God gives us instructions, he is not deliberately punishing us but he's helping us avoid the manipulations of the devil into destruction. 
I pray that God will provide all you need to nurture your pregnancy, and prepare for the arrival of your baby.

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