Thursday, June 1, 2017

He Suddenly Changed After Accepting His Proposal!

Hi ma good day, you are awesome, GOD has blessed you beyond measure.
Ma I have a little issue I want to share with you. The last time I wrote to you that I am lonely and my heart hasn't accepted any guy since then, that was September last year, I meet this guy who proposed to me and I accepted March this year.
In those three months he has been an awesome guy, loving, caring, and sex was out of this relationship which I am happy about it. He has introduced me to his parents, everybody in his family and they all like me, but for some weeks now I don't understand him, he doesn't call as usual. Before he do call me three times a day, chat with me always, later he changed, started calling once in a day at night only.
I confronted him, he said he is sorry thought I understood he work at night, he do design amination movie, cars and the rest, he promise to call me as usual. 
I told him even text message can go a long way if he is busy he said he is sorry I accepted, but now but now is worst he now calls me ones in two days. What should I do?

I will suggest that you give him some space and allow him to decide what's more important to him. You don't need to beg for attention or for affection. It's meant to be natural and effortless, if you have to force it, it's probably not genuine and will not stand the test of time. 
I can deduce that he wasn't like this from the beginning, so it will be inaccurate to attribute his change in attitude to his job. 
You have done what you ought to by expressing your concerns, now is the time for you to discern whether he's genuinely interested in building a future with you or not. 
Two months from now everything will be pretty clearer for you, and you will be in a better position to decide whether to quit the relationship or continue with him. 

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