Wednesday, December 27, 2017

Should I Divorce Him?

Good AM  Aunty Amara, I got married two years ago. I have two kids and I am pregnant with the third one.
My hubby started beating me three months after I stepped into his house till date. If I complain to my people, they will ask me to endure it, which I did.
My second baby was eight months and two weeks inside my womb, yet he beat me mercilaessly. On the day of my delivery, cord almost killed me and my baby.
This Christmas, he abused me that all my clothes were rags. I told him to buy cloths for me which he said that my kids and I should prepare to travel home. All the way from Lagos state, he bought ticket for us and gave three of us ₦1000 for pocket money, promised that he will send us some money.
Till date, he did not send us any money but he refused to pick my call. I am thinking of divorcing him.
Please advice me on what to do. 

Hmm, if truly he abuses you, beats you, and then starves you of basic needs, please by all means protect your life and walk away from any/every form of abusive marriage/relationship. 
Life is not a gift you give to an abusive partner, please resist every advice or suggestion from any individual who tells you to endure an abusive marriage/relationship. 
Your life is not what you allow others to dictate or control at their own will. 
As to whether to divorce your husband, if your life is under threat, if you are in an abusive marriage, if your marriage is dysfunctional, if you no longer feel safe, peaceful, and happy in your marriage, please consider taking a walk and then divorce when all other reconciliatory approach have failed. 


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