Marriage: I Want to Run before He Kills Me!

Good evening Aunty Amara, please I need your advice and it is very vital.

I am 35 years old, married with two kids (two boys), my first is 2 years old four months while the other one is seven months.

Since I got married to my husband, I have not had peace because he has revealed his true self: he drinks excessively, keeps late nite, smokes, takes hard drugs like codeine and all, he also womanise.

How Do I Liberate myself from Emotional Trauma in my Marriage?

Greetings ma, please I need your soul consoling advice.
I am a 25 years old lady married to a military man, I have been battling this case of infidelity since I married him for two years now.

I have applied all the tactics I know both involving his elder brother but