Saturday, September 24, 2016

He Said That I Should Abort My Baby.

Good morning ma, please I need your advice, am a serving NYSC member, am dating a guy who is a banker. Recently I missed my period, when I told him he said I will have to abort it
because he is not ready for now, but he always claims he loves me so much, but I don't want to do it...
Please kindly advice me on the next step to take please am losing it.

The first step to take is to go to the hospital and conduct a pregnancy test just to confirm that you're pregnant. If you're pregnant, please enrol for an antenatal care so that your gynaecologist will examine your pregnancy and advice you on how to maintain a healthy lifestyle and take care of your baby.
Please inform your mother of your pregnancy and then proceed to inform his family of your pregnancy. 
Always remember that your pregnancy doesn't guarantee that he must marry you, so don't use pregnancy as a bait for marriage. 
Abortion also is not an option because your child is innocent of whatever excuses your partner may have. 
He doesn't need to be ready for marriage to take the responsibility for your pregnancy, the very moment his erect penis got to your wet vagina, terms and conditions definitely apply.
So don't lose control of your emotions but prepare yourself to welcome your baby, and think of other things that you can do to argument your monthly allowance so that you can take good care of yourself and your baby.

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