Hello Aunty Amara, I have been an ardent reader of your page and have learnt a lot from your write ups. I have been dating this guy for some months now and he has been very good to me, mature, responsible and very hard working.
We have plans of settling down but my problem is he keeps listening to people's opinion about me. Twice he came with stories about people who narrated my past to him. What hurts me most is these stories are lies. What can I do to caution him about constantly digging information about my past from others.
You can't caution him if he feels that's the best way to learn more about you, but you can manage the kind of information you share with him. From his actions, it's obvious that he may have one or two reservations about your personality which is why he feels comfortable digging more about your past.
Take your time to let him know the basic information about yourself, and then allow him to furnish himself with whatever information he feels that he needs.
I would have said that you should consider sharing everything with him, but I am afraid that he may not believe you since he already have someone who he feels know more about you than you may possibly think.
So allow him to feed himself, and then listen to whatever discoveries he made. If a man genuinely respects you or believes in you, he will give you the courtesy of making enquiries from you instead of relying on the opinion of others.
Give him some time, allow him to make his own enquiries, and always be as honest and truthful as possible.
If he's comfortable with everything about your personality, he will stick with you, else you may let him go and wait for a man who won't put you under pressure by relying on others to learn more about you.
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