He Neither Calls Nor Spends Money On Me.

Good day ma,
Ma, I have been dating this guy for two years now.. He is a banker... He calls me on phone like two times in a week, the only money he has spent on me since we have been dating is five thousand naira.

I call him almost all the time to know how he is faring.. I am still staying with my parents..
Just today my dad said the guy does not love me that I am the one that is always calling him on phone and he does not call me the way I do.. Ma please I need an advice from you .. Since he does not call me the way I do and he does not spend money on me, does it mean he does not love me? Because my dad said he has to be calling me everyday and he should be sending me money to care for myself every month..
Ma please help me.


Well the truth is that if anyone is in love, communication is effortless, it's something that happens naturally with little or no restrictions or excuses. 
But where he finds it difficult to communicate with you and doesn't make out time to be with you, there's every possibility that he's giving the attention to someone else. The question is, who or what is he giving his attention to?
I disagree with your father's opinion in the aspect of sending money for your upkeep every month. That is not what relationship is all about, and it is not his responsibility to provide all your need. 
He can support you but it doesn't mean that it is his duty to always give you money. 
If he genuinely loves you, he will naturally care about your wellbeing, your happiness, and fulfilment as an individual. But it's left for you to figure out exactly what you love about him and why you feel that he loves you too.