Showing posts with label Money. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Money. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 21, 2018

How Do I Recover my Money from Him?

Good evening ma, please help a broken and disappointed soul. I type with tears.
I am 38 years old, I met him last year July online. He talked of marriage and I told him let us see each other first.
Both of us are from Anambra, also reside in Port Harcourt, same age. So, we met at Onitsha when I visited my brother's family, and we liked each other.
Next, he came to my brother's house and declared his intention, (my dad is late). We started planning of going to village to collect list. Aunty, I love this guy with everything in me. He told me he got job with Moscow company In Port Harcourt.

Monday, March 5, 2018

I'm Drowning in my Marriage!

Happy new year ma.. it's been a long time.. Trust your family is well... I'm really trouubled!

Good afternoon ma, I'm pregnant with my third baby, started service February. Due to the financial situation in the past two to three years, a lot has gone wrong.

I have had to follow him to several churches for prayers and delieverance just to support him,

Wednesday, January 24, 2018

What is the Ideal Financial Management Option for Couples?

Good day sis Amara. God bless you immensely for allowing God use you to be a blessing to many in diverse ways.
I am married for eight years now, though not rosy at all. I want to know the ideal way finances ought to be managed in the family.

Sunday, January 14, 2018

How Much Should A Lady Contribute to Her Wedding Preparations?

Good evening ma. I trust you're good as always. Please ma, I want to know, to what extent should a lady help her man or contribute to their wedding preparations?

Saturday, November 11, 2017

What Could be Wrong with Him?

Auntie it's me again, I really appreciate your efforts to others in finding solutions to there problem.
Please I have a problem, there is this guy am dating, things are going well but the issue is that he wants us to get married today or tomorrow. For me am not ready because I have to know him well.

Sunday, October 29, 2017

Is it Right to Ask your Girlfriend for Money?

Good morning ma, congrats on your new home.
My boyfriend and I love each other so much, he left Nigeria because he doesn't like the way things work here and I supported him all through. Sometimes when I go visiting, I try to manage or even use my money so he could save up and leave.

Sunday, October 15, 2017

Did I Overreact to my Husband?

Good evening ma. Aunty, please I need your advice on this. I am so angry right now.
I have been working with hubby in his business for close to four years now, even when we were dating. In fact, before I gave birth, I was the accountant.
After much pressure to open my own business, just two months ago, he released two of his shops to me to own o, but whenever he's away, I work on other shops too till he returns, likewise him too, wenever am  away, he helps with mine till I return.

Friday, July 28, 2017

Should I Still Marry Him?

Good evening ma Aunty Amara. This is my second time of writing. I am confused, please beautiful people I need your advice. Insults are also welcome.
I am a Corp member(NYSC) currently serving in one of the Northern states.
I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years now, and we are planning to settle down this year. I do not know how possible it is going to be because he doesn't have enough money for that now, his salary is very low. He stays in another state.

Saturday, April 8, 2017

Am I Asking for Too Much?

Good morning Amara and everyone else.
I am at my wit's end and won't bore you with unnecessary details.
I have been awake since 2am wondering the kind of life I've found myself in. This is my ninth year in marriage and blessed with children.

Sunday, October 30, 2016

He Neither Calls Nor Spends Money On Me.

Good day ma,
Ma, I have been dating this guy for two years now.. He is a banker... He calls me on phone like two times in a week, the only money he has spent on me since we have been dating is five thousand naira.

Monday, October 10, 2016

Is It Wrong To Know the Financial Status Of Your Partner?

Good evening ma, am so inspired by your words..
Please ma I need your advice....
I am a girl of 27 years, I met a guy early this year, at first we were good but later we started having issues.
It all started when he wanted to come and see my parents, I told my parents about him but they were against it because of his village, reason being that they don't believe in God, most believe in marine spirit because they worship water (this is what the village is known for)

Tuesday, October 4, 2016

How Do I Recover My Money From My Boss?

Dear Aunty Amara, I just need someone to pour out my mind to, to be relieved from the pain/hurt I'm feeling. Thanks aunty for always being there for us. Please is it a crime to help someone out of pity.
I worked for my boss for some months this year(as a stylist on contract). I'm the only stable person there, different people have come to work for her but they don't stay more than a month ( they say she's too strict).

Wednesday, September 28, 2016

Am I Wrong For Complaining About The Money?

Good day ma, ma please I need your advice. I met my boyfriend in May, we started dating, and I do visit him. Ma it happened that I told him I needed money to complete my school fees, he promised to give it to me. 
Months kept going and he did not bring up the topic because I told him my project supervisor won't approve my project without my school fees receipt. I waited, he didn't do anything, he is working and earning perfectly fine. 
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