Sunday, September 23, 2018

My Girlfriend Doesn't Love me Anymore.

Ma, I discovered my girlfriend doesn't love me again. There's this guy that has been disturbing her, I embarrassed courtesy by going through her phone and I discovered she's responding very well to the guy. She has even given him a pet name, though the guy is residing in another state. When she was telling me about the guy, she said she met him on transit from the east.
 They got talking and the guy told her he's a master degree holder and told her the name of the place he works. 
From every indication, the guy is richer than me, I'm just a first degree holder and my job doesn't pay that much. Her attitude towards me has changed, I confronted her but she told me they are just friends. 
I know it's more than that, she doesn't call me again as usual, it's like I'm forcing her to continue with me. Please ma, should I just pull out or continue to pet her even when I know that she doesn't have feelings for me again, because each time I think of her, I'm pained and I don't have peace of mind. 

No matter what happens around you as a man, always remember that you are in charge and in control of your emotion, feeling, and relationship choices you make. 
When you can no longer guarantee that you are getting the value for which you entered into the relationship, you have the freedom to choose whether to wait and fix it or walk away from the relationship. 
No matter how beautiful or intelligent a lady may be, never torture yourself emotionally to the point of comparing yourself with another man. 
Don't get to the point where you beg for love, that's the height of humiliation and emotional torture as a human being. 
If it's no longer genuine, you no longer feel it, she no longer care, and the relationship no longer give you peace of mind, you have the choice to walk away or discuss extensively with her to know what she's doing which you need to know. 
Again, I repeat, you don't deserve to be tortured emotionally because you are in love with a lady, if it ain't working and you can fix it, please fix it but where you can't, please walk away and fix yourself. When you meet with the lady who genuinely love you for who you are, she will build a future with you, even if your salary isn't as huge as that of other people.
Be focused on becoming a better version of your personality, work on your finances, and anyone who feels you're not good enough, let her sort herself out while you trust God for your own partner.

1 comment:

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